Parenting

Raising Positive Kids in a Negative World by Zig Ziglar

It is true that by the time the child becomes an adolescent, he knows exactly what his parents believe.

But he does not always comprehend the reasons behind the beliefs.

And that's why it's important to take time to communicate to your kids why you believe what you believe.

Standards and beliefs are reinforced by conversation; the youth needs to hear himself and his parents, as well as peers, talk about the important aspects of life.

Informal discussions, particiularly, can have a profound impact on the thinking of a youth.

Above all, during the adolescent stage, the child needs to feel the love, confidence, and support of parents.

When acceptance and love come through, the teen will also be open to all kinds of change for the good.

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Children Learn What They Live

If a child lives with criticism,
He learns to condemn.

If a child lives with hostility,
He learns violence.

If a child lives with ridicule,
He learns to be shy.

If a child lives with shame,
He learns to feel guilty.

If a child lives with encouragement,
He learns confidence.

If a child lives with praise,
He learns to appreciate.

If a child lives with fairness,
He learns justice.

If a child lives with securit,
He learns faith.

If a child lives with approval,
He learns to like himself.

If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
He learns to love the world.

- Dorothy Law Nolte

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